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Nico ([personal profile] vilakins) wrote2025-01-13 11:47 am

Don't call me and I won't call you

I wasn't grabbed by some of the early questions, and then forgot to look at the list because holiday mode. Here are some I could talk about.

8. Do you tend to text people or phone them and chat?
Totally text, or email! I hate phoning - getting or making calls. I'll look for any other way to contact people. Before I worked from home, I'd go and see people in person rather than phone, though it always pissed me off that while I was talking to them, they'd take a phone call. Assuming that's more important than the person right there is just rude. I have a friend who phones with a question and then rambles on randomly with ums, ahs, pauses, and long silences which don't seem to bother her, all of this for an hour or more, and I finally texted her and said how much I hate phone calls and please just text if she wants something. So the next phone call from her I just ignored, then texted her that I'd missed it, and what did she want? Much more efficient!

I gather I'm not alone in hating phone calls; several online friends do. What about you?

(And don't get me started on louts in cafes and restaurants who shout at their phones, or put them on speaker so their whole table can shout as a group.)

10. Has anything recently made you laugh out loud?
Lots of things - TV, books, convos with Greg. We have the same sense of humour. Hey, I've burst out laughing in public, just thinking of something funny.

13. What’s the weather like where you live today? Is it typical for your area at this time of year?
OK, not the most interesting topic, but it's chilly, often wet, and it's meant to be summer. I know summers here aren't great - autumn is the best season, and winter's not actually that bad - but it's been crap. Apparently it's the whole country though. Maybe February will be better; it usually is. The sun's shining right now but it's only 15C and, as usual, windy, and that's pretty good as this summer goes.
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[personal profile] imhilien 2025-01-13 03:51 am (UTC)(link)
I don't like phoning people either. 😑

Auckland weather is fine but colder than usual - too many southerlies I think.
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[personal profile] gwendraith 2025-01-13 12:17 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm okay making or receiving phone calls, as long as it's not some company or other trying to sell me something. I do, however, hate anyone ringing my doorbell when I'm not expecting any visitors or workmen. I just don't like the feeling of not knowing who it will be, and I hate even more when it's someone who has the temerity to bother me and trying to sell me something. Grrr.
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[personal profile] sound_of_silence 2025-01-13 05:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Yep, hate phone calls! Particularly because I sometimes have trouble understanding people if there's background noise, if they have an accent or speak too quickly. So basically if my phone rings and it's not someone I know or a call I'm expecting, I don't pick up. I also don't have my number publicly anywhere (resume, website, LinkedIn) and have started unashamedly saying no when potential clients ask for a phone call. E-mail is better for keeping a paper trail anyways.
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[personal profile] zoefruitcake 2025-01-13 09:16 pm (UTC)(link)
My best friend used to phone me all the time, usually telling me all her news just before I saw her. Thankfully over the years I've mostly weaned her out of this
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[personal profile] zoefruitcake 2025-01-14 07:14 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, in person rambles are just fine but by phone they are torture
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[personal profile] jhall1 2025-01-15 10:04 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm yet another phonophobe - if that's not a word, then it should be.