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gwendraith ([personal profile] gwendraith) wrote in [personal profile] vilakins 2023-03-01 10:00 am (UTC)

Compliments are given here, most often by women to other women but I have complimented a man if he looks paticularly dapper or has a nice or unusual tie or something like that and I'm sure other women have as well. There can be a problem with some women who seem to take offence at a man complimenting them, an "how dare you" attitude and a presumption they are being hit on or harrassed but that's not always the case at all, not all men are womanizers or letchers. I just think some women need to get over themselves to be honest. If it is unwanted attention from a certain man in the office, just tell them thanks but not to do again and report them to HR if it doesn't stop. I guess it's a personal thing, some people are uncomfortable with the attention and others not. When I was a young women wolf whistling was a thing and some women felt it was harrassment or were embarrassed but me, I didn't mind at all. Compliments do make me feel good when they do occur.

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